me and me bf have been together for 2 years and 4 months and were havign a baby boy.. i know he wouldnt do these things bcs we're having something big .. i know he takes weed as he works in holland too and i dont blame him he's works on an oil rig its not easy.. anyway while he was getting washed i looked in his drawer and i saw the syringe..when i confronted him he got mad saying he bought it on purpose to see if i would acually look.. and called me nosy and stuff..i had seen him hiding something.. and i looked :( and he said he bought it on purpose to see..but i doubt it..i remember his left arm hurting a lot and stuff..and before getting washed he went and took something else from the drawyer he just wouldnt tell me though :( please help.. there was also a bag there with a code kind of (f- and some numbers i think ).. can anyone explain this? i need to know if he is lying or not ..i dont know what to think but im sure he didnt tell me the truth cos he knows he would loose me :( i told him i'd be there for him no matter what but i hate him lying as he did it before.. :( uff he is not taking drugs on the oil rig !!! he is two weeks there two weeks here.. i just thought he might be upset and when he is at home he would take.. he is a very good person and i love him a lot thats why i was dissapointed when he didnt tell me the truth..
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1 :
poke his butt with it
2 :
No one would purposely have a syringe just to see if someone would find it.
3 :
He's going to lose you if he keeps lying to you. He's mainlining. Get out, now.
4 :
His story is not plausible, so it5 is most likely he is injecting. No-one would obtain a syringe otherwise. He is a fool because his job could be on the line and he has a baby coming along. You now have to do what's best for the baby, and you must recognise that you can't bring a baby up in a household where there is a drug addict. I wish you luck.
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I think it's obvious your boyfriend is a worthless liar. Call the police right away. If he's doing drugs on the job at an oil rig, the moron could end up killing someone.
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Dont give him the chance to lie to you. Just confront him and tell him straight out, I KNOW, youre lying to me. I KNOW, youre using. And them tell him what needs to happen. You cannot have him around a baby. What if he gets you started on drugs? What will happen to your child? You need to talk to him, find out if he's willing to get help, and depending on his decision, you need to make plans for yourself on how you will raise your child if he is not going to be in your life.
7 :
He may well be taking drugs but have you considered it for health issues? He may be embarrassed about it, he may have diabetes type 1 so you must be very careful how you confront him. There is doubts about him having diseases though because you need to test blood glucose levels when you're diabetic, does he ever leave the room before meals? There is a lot to take into consideration, but I am not saying that he is not on drugs, so don't be too abrupt when you confront him.
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Why for f@cks sake would he have a syringe in the house? And I do not believe his lame excuses to see if you were gonna look for it:get real If he works in Holland and I live there chances are big he is shooting drugs. You can get them all over the place and you are allowed to use them. Guess he went overboard and tried it himself. He shots stuff up his veins in his arm. Rescue yourself before this gets out of hand. Colors
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Much as the others have said. 1} Nobody hides syringes just as a party trick. 2} If he had diabetes, you would know by now. Same with any other legitimate medical use. 3} He's a pot-head - you already know that. 4} You know he's a liar. 5} It could perhaps be (anabolic) steroids but - he got you pregnant and that wouldn't happen if he was on steroids! 6} If it isn't medically prescribed - and it isn't, is it? - then it's definitely harmful and likely to be illegal (depending on the jurisdiction). 7} You are at risk, and therefore, so is the baby. So sorry. Hard to decide what to do.
